<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858274205979842305</id><updated>2011-04-21T11:47:21.514-07:00</updated><category term='Marriage'/><category term='converts'/><category term='Purpose'/><title type='text'>Fishers of Men in Peru</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6858274205979842305/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Pastors Adam and Liliana</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06245819316105101232</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SNfo8Yb-WDI/AAAAAAAAAAs/r1zntkt_8Pg/S220/DSC_0096.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>4</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858274205979842305.post-1535495631860581937</id><published>2008-11-12T08:43:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-12T10:30:57.853-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Updates from the mission field! Harvest festival 2008!!!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Thanks to all of you our friends and partners who make our ministry outreach possible! Many of you may know that I was recently in the USA for a few weeks. While in the states I visited Michigan, Lousiana, South Carolina, North Carolina and Florida and was able to make aquaintances with new pastors and churches. I praise God that my travels were blessed and I made it back to Peru safely and in good health! After a month, Liliana and Andrew were desperate to see me!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Although I was not in Peru for a month, our ministry continued under the leadership of Liliana. She organized the members of our church to form a team for our very first children's Harvest Festival (in lieu of halloween). &lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRsRpfQZ1xI/AAAAAAAAACQ/u9jujg6ln0E/s1600-h/DSC03384.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267823593602537234" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 150px" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRsRpfQZ1xI/AAAAAAAAACQ/u9jujg6ln0E/s200/DSC03384.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRsRqKFc4MI/AAAAAAAAACg/5Mvt7v5J4gw/s1600-h/DSC03408.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267823605099323586" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 150px" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRsRqKFc4MI/AAAAAAAAACg/5Mvt7v5J4gw/s200/DSC03408.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;God has placed a special emphasis in our hearts for the children's&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRscIaWQ-sI/AAAAAAAAADI/E_Am_PFNqqQ/s1600-h/DSC03486.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267835119977167554" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 150px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRscIaWQ-sI/AAAAAAAAADI/E_Am_PFNqqQ/s200/DSC03486.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; ministry, so we've begun to take more time planning, teaching, and preparing to make sure that we're reaching the kids as we should. And here in Lima there are a LOT of kids! :)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRsYgYicJUI/AAAAAAAAACw/CR3b9wYm6ug/s1600-h/DSC03439.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267831133761709378" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 167px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 127px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRsYgYicJUI/AAAAAAAAACw/CR3b9wYm6ug/s200/DSC03439.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRse9ch8zEI/AAAAAAAAADQ/lxMBu7hRz6s/s1600-h/helpers.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267838230119369794" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 150px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRse9ch8zEI/AAAAAAAAADQ/lxMBu7hRz6s/s200/helpers.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I was really pleased with how Liliana had so many of our leaders and people involved with the Harvest Festival! We had youth and adults helping, parents and also singles. The Lord recently brought to us a young lady who owns a preschool nearby, and she's been coming to our services regularly. With her help, Liliana organized an entire show for the kids that consisted of games, song and dance, clowns, puppets and of course lots of treats. The entire show lasted about an hour and a half, and when it was all said and done, &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;over 80 children&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; had been ministered to! (see photos of festival)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Now we're our plans are for our Christmas Outreach&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;. Our goal is to reach over 300 children with the message of Jesus for Christmas. This time we'll be ministering in a very poor area where many children are abused, neglected, and have very little. Just us going to share &lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRsYgvZfAfI/AAAAAAAAAC4/_aeFKi-nzPg/s1600-h/DSC03494.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267831139898163698" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 150px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRsYgvZfAfI/AAAAAAAAAC4/_aeFKi-nzPg/s200/DSC03494.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRsRqUMno8I/AAAAAAAAACo/3rGmi_QmfDU/s1600-h/DSC03442.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267823607813743554" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 150px" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRsRqUMno8I/AAAAAAAAACo/3rGmi_QmfDU/s200/DSC03442.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;God's love will mean so much to many of them! We'll have songs, games, clowns, puppets, a gospel presentation, snacks, and small gifts for the kids. &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Our budget is $5 per child, so please consider making a small contribution (or a large one!) to minister to the kids&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for your prayers! Please email us with any comments, questions, prayer requests, etc. Also, if you like to come to Peru and be a part of our Christmas outreach or plan a trip for the coming year please let us know. The doors are always open, the harvest is ripe and the labores are few!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Much love from Peru, from us to you...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Adam, Liliana &amp;amp; Andrew&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6858274205979842305-1535495631860581937?l=fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com/feeds/1535495631860581937/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6858274205979842305&amp;postID=1535495631860581937&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6858274205979842305/posts/default/1535495631860581937'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6858274205979842305/posts/default/1535495631860581937'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com/2008/11/updates-from-mission-field-harvest.html' title='Updates from the mission field! Harvest festival 2008!!!'/><author><name>Pastors Adam and Liliana</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06245819316105101232</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SNfo8Yb-WDI/AAAAAAAAAAs/r1zntkt_8Pg/S220/DSC_0096.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SRsRpfQZ1xI/AAAAAAAAACQ/u9jujg6ln0E/s72-c/DSC03384.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858274205979842305.post-6275806541037830060</id><published>2008-10-03T20:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-03T21:31:18.124-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='converts'/><title type='text'>The church as a chameleon</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;One thing that has been impressed on my mind&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; is the acute similarity between the modern evangelical Christian church in the United States and the post conquest Roman Catholic church of Peru. &lt;em&gt;What in the world do I mean&lt;/em&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Centuries ago&lt;/strong&gt;, when the Catholic church made a major missionary thrust into the New World (beginning in Peru, as a matter of fact), the main goal appears to have been conversion of the "heathen" on a mass scale. At all costs. So what did the Church do? Under the protection of Spanish steel they outlawed the local religions. Temples and shrines dedicated to the sun and the moon and the earth were razed to the ground, multitudes were slaughtered, and generations were put under the yoke of slavery. "Horrible!" you might say, and you'd be correct in saying that. It was indeed horrible, another botched "crusade" in the name of religion. But what the church did after that was even worse, and to this day has killed more people and in my estimation sent more people to hell than any thing else. And no, I am not going to talk about praying to idols or saints or any of that (which I am not in agreement with, but that's another blog).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What the church did was allow the natives to pretty much keep their former beliefs, or at times mix and meld them into the catholic faith. In fact, right upon the ancient foundation of the Incan Sun God Temple they built the Catholic Cathedral in the heart of the Incan (and likewise conquered) empire. Right smack in the middle of downtown Cuzco, to be exact. God the Father replaced the Sun God, Mary replaced  the Earth Mother, Jesus the Moon...In essence, the natives never missed a beat. Each time they went to the Cathedral for centuries thereafter they knew in their hearts that they were still bowing to their Sun god. Even today, sacrifices are made to the earth in the form of flesh and blood offerings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Instead of correcting the natives, the catholic priests seemingly winked at the obvious. I'm sure it made for easier conversions...if you don't have to change your heart, if you can be comfortable, sure, why not? Today it grieves my heart to see mass pagan idolatry, the many drunken festivals dedicated to proported saints, sacred shrines each with it's own "virgin" or saint or suedo-Jesus. I once spoke with one dear old lady in a village market outside of Cuzco, where the patron saint or semi-god/Jesus is the "Lord of the earthquakes" (a black, purple-clad Jesus, by the way), and she did not know that there is only one God and one Lord. She really thought that there were many Lords, and perhaps even multi Gods.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; So let me resume what I am saying: Instead of holding the population to a biblical standard, correcting drast moral issues, and seeking real heart change, the church became a melting pot, allowing for almost anything as long as it came under the domain of Rome. Or, in essence, it doesn't matter about one's lifestyle, sin, paganism, etc as long as one is a member of the church and has been baptized. Most of you are probably understanding what I am saying, and even now there is seething within your heart a desire for holy vengance upon the midians of Rome for such abuse. &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;You'll want to burn me for heresy for what I'm going to say next&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Christian Church in the USA, the great beacon of hope and freedom and God's Canaan land of prosperity and blessing, whether Baptist, Methodist, Presbyterian, Pentecostal, Full Gospel, etc has done the EXACT SAME THING in our generation!  We've become like a great chameleon that changes and blends to fit in with her surroundings. You can see the molt trails all over the country.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When so many churches are now going to laid-back services, when there is not any mention of Hell or true repentance, when the Holy Spirit is tied up and stuffed in a broom closet for fear of "turning some people off", when worship music seems to be competing with the secular Top Ten, when messages are politically correct and preachers no longer "call it like it is" and church services are all geared towards reaching the lost (thus the new terminology "seeker friendly"), then we have done nothing less than what an enslaving empire did centuries ago.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I challenge you to do a study of the many revivals of time past. Regardless of denomination, each revival (the Great Awakening, for example), took place because men of God refused to bow the knee to the god of this world and risked the fire of rejection, seeking the face of God to change the hearts of men. Mass evangelism was the norm, but not the feel good, be moved by the music, and come "investigating" a relationship with Jesus evangelism we see so much of today. It was do or die, heaven or hell. Come as you are, yes, but come a repented sinner seeking God with all your heart. A heart that was pricked by the sword of the spirit without apology.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I recently was in a christian book store and began to flip through a book written by a self-acclaimed athiest, writing from his point of view on the various churches he had visited. He was actually writing to tell pastors how to adjust their services to reach their target audience of non-believers. He had a lot of good sounding ideas that basically could be summed up like this: Don't condemn anyone, have short but modern worship, intellectually stimulating messages, but nothing too hard to swallow. Sounds good, and seems like many pastors and churches have adopted similar strategies to streamline their services. But is all that biblically sound advice? Should we adjust our services to make the lost feel comfortable? Many experts on church growth will say yes. Many pastors of mega churches will say yes. You might even be thinking yes, since we are called to win the lost at all costs. But I say no.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;If you read the bible, you will note that most conversions of sinners did not take place in "Church" services.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; In fact, they seem to have taken place after the disciples of the Lord had been in prayer, in the word, getting themselves built up and healed and on fire, and then going out to impact a lost world with the presence of God impregnated in their very bodies and even their shadows. Indeed, the term "church" comes from a greek word which in essence means "the called out ones"  or "assembly". What did the writer of Hebrews say the purpose of church services is? Hebrews 10:25 "not forsaking the assembling of ourselves (christians, believers)...but exhorting one another... daily, while it is called today, lest any of you be harded by the deceitfulness of sin (hebrews 3:13)" The purpose of a true church service is to encourage and edify CHRISTIANS, not reach out to the lost!  The lost being reached is a by-product of US (blood-bought Christians) coming together, glorfying and worshipping God and being empowered with the Holy Spirit. (See Acts chapters 2-5)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take for example what many "full-gospel" or pentecostal churches are doing. To not scare off anyone with demonstrations of the Holy Spirit, services are very laid back as far as spiritual gifts go. By laid back I mean you don't ever see them any more. Not in the main service. Do you know what Paul said about that?  Take a look at 1 Corinthians 14:23-33. Go ahead, read it. Notice that Paul says in verse 23 "if the whole church comes together in ONE place (sounds like a church service, doesn't it?)...and there come in those who are uninformed or UNBELIEVERS..."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words, it's possible that unbelievers come in, but that seems to be the exception, not the rule. Paul is talking here in this passage about the misuse and proper use of spiritual gifts. He does not tell the church at Corinth the STOP using spiritual gifts (so as to not scare anyone off), does he? No, but he does tell them that they need to be used in order. Spiritual gifts are meant for ministering to the body, and Paul says that if one correctly prophesies to a non believer, the secrets of his heart will be revealed, and he will fall on his face and declare that God is among you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It could be what turns sinners off more than anything else is not having order with spiritual things. Being in services where everything is chaos.  But when the sweet Holy Spirit is allowed to move as He desires, within the boundaries of order as established in 1 Cor 14:23-33, sinners will not be repulsed but rather convicted. That is what we want, isn't it? Real heart conversions that lead to changed lives and true salvation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pastors, seek God and not the face of men! Do what is right, not what is popular. You might not have a mega church. But who cares? Are we seeking to grow our church, making conversions but not true disciples? We are called to make disciples, and that demands that people change, not remain the same. Change will not come without truth, and truth can sometimes hurt. People need to know that sin will kill them, either here or in eternity. Those we have in our churches need to be fed, not a watered down soupy sermon but beef steak, potatoes,  and vegetables of the word of God. Not only do they need the word, but also the presence of God. We have to give an account to Jesus Christ, not our board or the community or our peers. "For we shall all appear before the judgment seat of Christ..."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A chameleon blends in with his surroundings. We've done the same thing in the US.  Although we have not shed men's blood or forced conversions, we are guilty of buying the idea that comfortable people will come to Christ when they are ready. Sure, they have issues. But don't run them away. Look how much my church has grown...how many are real converts only God knows. But it's nothing new.That lizard has been shedding since the days of the Spanish conquest in Peru.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bless you! Pastor Adam&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mychurch.org/perumissionary"&gt;www.mychurch.org/perumissionary&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6858274205979842305-6275806541037830060?l=fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com/feeds/6275806541037830060/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6858274205979842305&amp;postID=6275806541037830060&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6858274205979842305/posts/default/6275806541037830060'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6858274205979842305/posts/default/6275806541037830060'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com/2008/10/church-as-chameleon.html' title='The church as a chameleon'/><author><name>Pastors Adam and Liliana</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06245819316105101232</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SNfo8Yb-WDI/AAAAAAAAAAs/r1zntkt_8Pg/S220/DSC_0096.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858274205979842305.post-5432565588214266666</id><published>2008-09-30T22:05:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-09-30T22:19:27.973-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Marriage'/><title type='text'>A marriage made in heaven</title><content type='html'>I'm back! Taking a few minutes to write as the Lord inspires.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Any student of the bible will easily realize the relation of a christian marriage and our relationship with the Lord. I recently spoke on the 4 stages of marriage in our church after the Lord showed me some surprising things about marriage and how it relates to HIM.As &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Christians&lt;/span&gt;, as a church, we are very literally married to Jesus. We know there will be a future wedding feast, and that "the spirit and the bride (the church) say come". We are all looking forward to that day! A marriage made in heaven!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;God showed me that all too often we don't understand marriage and that our motives for marrying are wrong&lt;/strong&gt;! &lt;em&gt;Especially with ministers or those who dream of ministry and feel a call on their lives&lt;/em&gt;. Gasp! Choke! What!? Let me explain...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. &lt;strong&gt;Falling in Love&lt;/strong&gt;: This is the stage that begins with much emotion, excitement and attraction. ends with the "I do", an acceptance of the beloved as the only one in your heart and life. A complete dedication of one's self. The dream of so many.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How like us when we first hear of Christ. We may "see" him from afar, and we are drawn by His beauty, captivated by his gaze, enamored by his kindness, and desiring his tender caress. We tie the knot, so to speak, accepting him into our hearts. We are "married". Do we know what we are getting ourselves into? We promise and swear to Him our fidelity...He is the only one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. &lt;strong&gt;The honeymoon stage&lt;/strong&gt;: A time of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;ecstasy&lt;/span&gt;, intense emotion, passion...all is new and marvelous. It's like a dream. How could we have missed all this? It's what we've been waiting for...for so long:) We've had a personal close encounter with our beloved, our heart has been opened...we've seen each other "naked" without any shame. There are many men who get married &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;solely&lt;/span&gt; for this reason. It's a short-lived happiness!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even so, when we give ourselves to Christ, the first few months, or perhaps the first year, is a time marked by a passionate pursuit, an entwining romance, a cloud-walking spiritual high. The word is so fresh and precious...our times of intimacy so sweet. But just like a natural marriage, we soon learn that we can not spend all our time in the bed (intimacy/worship). A real marriage needs open, honest communication, dedication, and above all service one to another.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. &lt;strong&gt;The reality&lt;/strong&gt;: Whoa, not as easy as I thought it would be! I'm seeing aspects of my partner that I missed before. They are more demanding of me, and this relationship demands that I change. I can't do what I always want to do! I'm learning new things about my partner and about me too! I'm not as mature as I thought, but ironically this relationship is making me mature. Of course, that depends on whether or not I give my part. While this stage may be a lot more frustrating, it's also the more rewarding. We are beginning to think alike, talk alike, act alike. They might think something, and I say it...I think it and she does it...any of you that have been married for a while have experienced that. Of course, our marriage is being tested...we come under all kinds of pressure from without. We are under attack daily. But if we both do our part, nothing can separate us. We're together in the good and the bad. For richer or for poorer...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our ministry and calling is beginning to unfold as we &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;pursue&lt;/span&gt; our dreams and calling. Still we long for those times of intimacy, now far and perhaps fewer, but as our communication has improved so too has our times of closeness. Children come from our times of intimacy, but they need to be raised in an atmosphere of communication, respect and comprehension. We have a life and ministry together. This is what we have always desired.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How many young men and women called of God separate themselves and look past the initial honeymoon stage, gazing into the future and seeing their calling unfold with their spouse by their side. They are mature enough to know that they can't stay in the bed forever and that a real relationship is hard work. But they desire their "help meet" for the call of God that is on their lives. So when they meet a young man or woman, they look past the physical, into the heart, above all looking for those traits of character that will enable the other to walk with them in the way of the Lord. &lt;strong&gt;The Lord showed me that this is not the correct motive to marry someone&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Christians&lt;/span&gt;, in the 3rd stage of our relationship (marriage) with Christ, we come to a realizing that it's not as easy as we thought it would be. We must endure the temptations of others who would take us from our beloved. We are faced with pressure on all sides. Our character is being formed...we move from the times of intimacy to practical service. We learn His likes and dislikes. We learn to submit. We don't always get our way. At times our husband says "no!". But at the same time, we are excited because we begin to fulfill our dreams and visions...These &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;dreams&lt;/span&gt; and visions are the spiritual "children" that we conceive in our times of intimacy with our Lord. But for these "children" to grow and mature, we must maintain communication and communion with Him. However, we don't love God only to serve Him and raise his "kids". Kids grow up...visions are fulfilled..."whether there are prophecies, they will fail, whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. &lt;strong&gt;The Golden years&lt;/strong&gt;: The honeymoon is a faded memory. The kids have grown up and moved away. Thankfully we did not build our marriage upon them. How many couples find themselves literal strangers under the same roof after the kids have come and gone? The woman you married, who before had a coke bottle figure, now has the figure of a coke CAN! The man you married, well, he's changed too, at least outwardly. You both bear the scars and wear the victories of the years. But since you have patiently and lovingly waited upon each other and established open communication, this is the best phase of your life together. You merely enjoy "being" with one another, not for any special plight or cause or calling. Just being together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The apostle Paul had passed all of these stages in his walk with the Lord. At the end of his life, he was in the 4&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; and final stage. He had nothing. He realized he was nothing. And his only desire was to "know Him" (Philippians 3:10). He had a legacy of what he and the Lord had done together, and he longed for the rest of eternity with his Lord, to only bask in His presence and just "be" with Him. &lt;strong&gt;That, my dear ones, is the reason for marrying someone&lt;/strong&gt;. Not to have a life of dedication and service and ministry together. All that has its end someday. Perhaps many pastors could have salvaged their marriage had they not built it around ministry. When ministry is gone, you have the person. And that is far more valuable than any ministry, no matter how great or large it is.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So as you are looking for that special someone, I challenge you to forget about making that person fit your requirements for ministry. Don't ask if that person can carry your vision, or if they have what it takes to run with you and complete the "vision". Don't even look for the perfect "fit" for your vision. I've done that in the past: "Well, I'm called to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;missions&lt;/span&gt; and all she wants to do is teach &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;Sunday&lt;/span&gt; school". Rather, ask yourself "If I didn't have any of that, no calling, no vision, no church, would it matter if all I had was her/him?" Because the bottom line is that in the end, aside from the Lord, all you will have is that one special person.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After the Lord showed me this, I've &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;acquired&lt;/span&gt; a lot more appreciation for my wife. Just being with her is enough. Just being with the Lord is more than enough. Bless you!Pastor Adam&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6858274205979842305-5432565588214266666?l=fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com/feeds/5432565588214266666/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6858274205979842305&amp;postID=5432565588214266666&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6858274205979842305/posts/default/5432565588214266666'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6858274205979842305/posts/default/5432565588214266666'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com/2008/09/marriage-made-in-heaven.html' title='A marriage made in heaven'/><author><name>Pastors Adam and Liliana</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06245819316105101232</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SNfo8Yb-WDI/AAAAAAAAAAs/r1zntkt_8Pg/S220/DSC_0096.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858274205979842305.post-2382421839827784386</id><published>2008-09-22T11:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-09-22T11:14:00.172-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Purpose'/><title type='text'>Why we do what we do</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SNfep1u6qFI/AAAAAAAAAAM/qPYbJ2Ig6l4/s1600-h/DSC00984.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5248908701103466578" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SNfep1u6qFI/AAAAAAAAAAM/qPYbJ2Ig6l4/s320/DSC00984.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Hello friends! Pastor Adam here, writing from our home in Lima. If you take a look at the pic on the right, you'll see a lot of faces and a lot of smiles. Behind these smiles are stories of changed lives, lives that have been touched and transformed by the love of God. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;These are some of the people who now form part of Life and Truth Church in Lima, Peru. They come from different backgrounds. But they all have one thing in common. They have been united by a common goal and a common faith and a true love. I've spent time with them, prayed with them, counseled them, and watched them grow in thier walk with Christ.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;God truly has done real miracles in their lives. They are learning how to walk by faith, living according to the word of God. Depending on the Spirit. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;"My life for the gospel!" one man of God once boldly proclaimed. As you look at these smiling faces, my prayer is that you will begin to understand why we do what we do. Life in Peru is not easy, but the rewards far outweigh all discomforts. Thank you for your prayers for these sheep!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Blessings from Peru,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Pastor Adam&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6858274205979842305-2382421839827784386?l=fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com/feeds/2382421839827784386/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6858274205979842305&amp;postID=2382421839827784386&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6858274205979842305/posts/default/2382421839827784386'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6858274205979842305/posts/default/2382421839827784386'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://fishersofmenperu.blogspot.com/2008/09/why-we-do-what-we-do.html' title='Why we do what we do'/><author><name>Pastors Adam and Liliana</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06245819316105101232</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SNfo8Yb-WDI/AAAAAAAAAAs/r1zntkt_8Pg/S220/DSC_0096.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JfGIHgQrBBQ/SNfep1u6qFI/AAAAAAAAAAM/qPYbJ2Ig6l4/s72-c/DSC00984.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
